The 10 Most Toxic Forms of Control in Relationships

Controlling people seek power over others by reducing their partners’ confidence and stature.

Here are the 10 most toxic forms of control in relationships, with examples of each behavior:

1)  Coercing

Trying to isolate you from others. Keeping financial or other resources out of your hands or sharing resources only after extracting a price from you. Trying to make you act against or give up your values. Fostering unhealthy triangles, for example keeping in contact with former lovers or putting you in the middle of conflicts between them and family members or friends.Relationships Relationships Relationships Relationships Relationships

2)  Demeaning

Debasing you through ridicule or name-calling. Embarrassing you in front of others. Telling you that you are unattractive or unintelligent. Downplaying or ignoring your strengths and accomplishments. Making sarcastic comments.

3)  Handicapping

Shaming or scapegoating you. Treating you as a child or as if you are not equal or capable. Telling you that you couldn’t survive without the relationship. Violating your privacy. Excluding you from major decisions that affect you and the relationship.Relationships Relationships Relationships Relationships Relationships

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